Friday, July 27, 2007

Unwanted Help

Why does "Dr". Phil think he can help people by showing and talking about peoples faults on national TV ? All he is doing is driving people who really need help deeper into a sense of denial. It takes years of one on one counseling and therapy to even begin to open up and see ones faults before you can even start to fix them. When people are confronted on national TV with what they feel is a fault . and "Dr." Phil is ragging on them about it they just hide those faults and don't seek help as they fear thats what therapy is. All he should say to every person is " Go to a therapist" or "seek help" . Do no harm, isn't that the oath .... you are harming every single person who watches the shows. You don't get things right, you are bowing to commercial interests and hurting people and ideas that you have no medical expertise to even talk intelligently about let along pass judgment on. The blood had not even been cleaned up in Virgina and you were blaming video games..... How egotistical do you have to be to go on TV and blame something before investigators even officially release the name of the gunman. Did you spend time with this young man ? did you analize him and his lifestyle, his family, the pressures of being an collage student? What were his fears, his hopes ? How was his home life ? Did his dad beat him ? Was he molested as a child ? Unless you know even a couple of those things please do all of us a favor and keep your self perpetuating, ego driven nonsensical advice inside your bloated head.

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